How I Imagined An Ideal Relationship

is between Phil and Claire. Respectful to each other.
Maybe relationship is not that complicated.
We just do it, and solve the problems ahead.
Problems stem from bad communication.
Things we’re afraid to say.
Sometimes even after good communication, there are still problems.
The next problem is immaturity.
Given good communication between each other,
relationship should have been going well.
We share our discomfort, and we find the middle ground, i.e. compromise.
But someone who’s immature, stays in place, not moving from where she stands.
Always her wishes that must be granted.
Or she takes, takes, and takes, never gives.
Because she thinks that’s what women are supposed to do.
I admit I’m immature, too.
Why would I leave the comfort I’m having right now,
and increase my spending by two fold or maybe thrice?
Maybe the key component I’m missing is love itself.
If I really love someone, things like that wouldn’t bother me at all.
Just like what other people do, who are willing to sacrifice everything,
even their own life,
for their lover.