We are all narcissists

So I read a book “Concise Laws of Human Nature” There, basically it is explained that we all love ourselves, therefore, we are all narcissistic by nature, just there are spectrums. The difference between a clinical NPD with those who don’t is how their love for themselves affects other people, or to be more accurate,Continue reading “We are all narcissists”

Being a Teenager is Hard

Looking back, as I was a teenager, I can only remember that I was angry at all times. It’s not just hormones. Mostly it was a feeling of helplessness, a feeling of wanting to understand something: the world and how it works, but having no guidance. A feeling of wanting to be understood, but noContinue reading “Being a Teenager is Hard”

Respect and cowardice

Just last night I had a lot of uncontrollable laughs. I laughed because I watched a lot of Pinkan Mambo compilation videos and Lina Mukherje. For Lina “Queen of Garmek,” because that was my first time being exposed to her contents. I was very much surprised by how insightful she was. After all, she wasContinue reading “Respect and cowardice”

Things No One Taught Us About Love

When I first encountered this book at Periplus, it was wrapped in plastic.I couldn’t check what was inside.As a robot who is learning about human behavior, this intrigued me, and I wanted to know how love works. I expected the contents would be something like, how relationship worked, how it should be. But after readingContinue reading “Things No One Taught Us About Love”

Let’s talk about marriage

There are 2 activities where I meditate, having conversation with myself, and giving birth to great ideas: taking a bath and riding a motorcycle. One of these thoughts is about marriage. I think about this when someone I followed on Instagram has just recently married. In previous videos before marriage, I saw his eyes wereContinue reading “Let’s talk about marriage”